In the quiet moments of reflection, I often find myself replaying the memories of a cherished friendship that has deeply enriched my life.
This is the story of my bond with David Etsey Agbenu, Editor of the Ghanaian Times, a relationship that began in the early 1990s and has flourished into a lifetime of mentorship, camaraderie, and shared dreams.
It all started with a seemingly simple errand. I had been tasked with delivering a letter to the then-editor of the Ghanaian Times, the late Mr. Robert Bentil, a revered figure in Ghanaian journalism. As I approached the gates of the iconic newspaper office, I encountered David.
His approachable, warm demeanor immediately set me at ease. After introducing myself and handing over the letter, our interaction quickly turned into a meaningful conversation—a moment that marked the beginning of a lifelong connection.
When I introduced myself as Fiifi Nettey, sent by Bright Blewu, who was then the General Secretary of the Ghana Journalists Association (GJA), David responded with his characteristic charm. “Call me Dave,” he said, adding that he is the chapter chairman of the GJA at the Ghanaian Times. I left the office that day having accomplished my errand, but more importantly, I had gained a mentor and a friend whose influence would profoundly shape my personal and professional life.
From that initial meeting, our bond only grew stronger. David became a pillar of support in my life, offering guidance and encouragement at every turn.
His home and heart were always open to my family and me, and through him, I found a network of lifelong friendships with notable journalists like Theophilus Yartey, Editor of the Daily Graphic; Selase Adjorlolo, Editor of the Business, and Financial Times; Dr. James Asante lecturer of UNIMAC and Kwasi Kpodo of the African Development Bank. David had a unique ability to connect people, fostering relationships that transcended professional boundaries.
As a dedicated leader within the GJA, David held positions as Organizing Secretary and later as General Secretary. In these roles, his meticulous planning and dedication to excellence were evident. From coordinating of GJA activities like the GJA Awards to organizing World Press Freedom Day events and managing media accreditations for elections, David’s contributions were transformative. His efforts extended to organizing the “Media Eleven” football team, playing so many matches with corporate institutions, seamlessly blending work with recreation.
While some perceived his pursuit of perfection as sternness, those of us who knew him intimately understood his true nature. He was fiercely loyal, deeply sincere, and unflinchingly honest—a rare combination that made him a treasured friend. He was also one of the few people who affectionately called me “Kuntu,” a nickname that holds personal significance within our close circle.
David’s belief in education as a pathway to personal and professional growth significantly impacted my life. He encouraged me to pursue my first degree, an endeavor that ultimately transformed my career trajectory.
When the opportunity arose to pursue a master’s degree, we enrolled together. Sharing lectures, assignments, and countless late-night discussions about journalism deepened our bond and enriched my academic journey.
One of David’s enduring qualities was his wisdom, often encapsulated in simple yet profound phrases. “Your time will come,” he would often say, a mantra that became a source of comfort and inspiration during challenging times. His words taught me the value of patience and perseverance, lessons that continue to resonate in my life.
Beyond our shared professional pursuits, David and I bonded over our mutual love for football. Both ardent supporters of Accra Hearts of Oak, we spent countless hours analyzing matches, celebrating victories, and lamenting losses. On match days, the Accra Sports Stadium became our sanctuary, a place where our shared enthusiasm and camaraderie came to life.
Through life’s triumphs and trials, David has remained a steadfast friend and mentor. His influence has been a cornerstone of my growth, shaping not just my career but also my character. To me, he is more than a colleague or a mentor—he is family.
As I reminisce about our journey, I am reminded of the profound impact one person can have on another’s life. David Etsey Agbenu, you have been my big brother, confidant, and inspiration. Your friendship, wisdom, and unwavering belief in me are gifts I will always cherish.
Our shared memories stand as a testament to the power of genuine connections and loyalty, and I look forward to many more years of camaraderie and collaboration.
Thank you, David, for being not just a friend but a beacon of light in my life.
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